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Cooperation is key to raise children after divorce

| Jul 11, 2018 | Child Custody |

Arizona parents who are separated or divorced know that co-parenting after a split has many challenges. However, to make co-parenting work, both parents must be ready to cooperate and keep the focus on the best interest of the children.

Negotiating life after child custody has been established is not always the easiest thing as parents need to respect the parenting schedule agreed to during the divorce while at the same time beginning new lives. Emotions can also get in the way, particularly if the split between the parents came after a betrayal such as adultery. However, there are ways the parents can work together to make parenting after the divorce successful and still provide the kids with a warm, loving, balanced life with both parents actively involved.

For co-parenting to be successful, experts recommend keeping the focus on the children and their needs and valuing what each person has to offer as parents. Even though parenting styles differ and can be sources of conflict, both parents should be involved in their children’s lives unless there are special circumstances such as abuse. This means that parents should try to put aside how they might feel about one another and instead focus on how their children will benefit from a more amicable relationship between the parents. Both parents must remain flexible even while following the set parenting plan. It is a good idea to refrain from making negative comments about the other parent and to encourage children to strengthen a relationship with the other parent as well.

Successful co-parenting begins even before a split is final. During the negotiation and planning time, a parent might find it useful to contact a lawyer with family law experience. The lawyer may be a source of support and guidance while negotiating the many issues that come up during this period.